A positive change I have made in my life is not letting people control what I can and can't like. People judge me for the music I listen to or the band shirts I wear and that used to upset me very much. But I just stopped letting it because they don't have to agree with what I listen to in order for me to listen to it or wear it. It doesn't matter what they think about me. It matters what people I care about think about me but I'm never going to be a popular gift who listens to rap and goes to parties. I'm going to be the girl who listens to pop-puck, post hardcore, and "scary" music and goes to Hot Topic :) and I'm okay with it!
