My change was forgiveness to my friends and family. I could never forgive people. My heart was broken and sad. It would take me a day to forgive. But I have learned you have to forgive people no matter how much hurt they put you through. You have to forgive because if you don't forgive you will always have that memory in your heart. You have to forget about the past. I have heard to be a forgiver you have to forgive and forget about the past. And always love them no matter what.